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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Sexy Link: One-night Swinger's take

An excerpt from the column I just read: "So swingers’ clubs as dens of iniquity? Not exactly. As chambers of purity and innocence? Not exactly that, either. As bastions of open-minded play and woman-centered sexuality? Okay, with reservations, I’ll go with that. The women certainly seem to rule the roost and many have found a place to be, ahem, revered, to use Charles’ word."

I found it interesting to read this columnist's take on the lifestyle after a little research and then experiencing just one night at a club. No, this article isn't going to rock your world, but it's sort of comforting to know there are some vanilla-ians - LOL - that don't snub their noses at us, point, and call us freaks. ;)

Fondly yours,
Jill

3 comments:

Tallgrass said...

Interesting article.

Dharma said...

I've actually found that the more "vanilla" people I talk to about our penchant for "perversion," the more I seem to find people who are really interested in the lifestyle and what it's really all about, how it works, how it all goes down (no pun intended)...and of course, I've even had a few "I wanna do it, too!!" comments.

I think less people are judgmental about what we're doing and more just insecure because they aren't comfortable admitting they might like it.

Stray Together said...

Dharma - I have to agree. First, people are always afraid and/or judgmental about that which they don't know and, two, I think they are insecure about themselves.

Fondly,
Jill