Sexy Thank Yous: Thanks for the follow!

Thanks so much to The Oasis: Slut Next Door (I've reciprocated) and Latin Guy (do you have a blog?) for the follow! We'll be sure to keep it interesting for you. ;)

A very vanilla weekend, this one. We're missing some great club adventures, but, honestly, waiting causes the anticipation and excitement for the next encounter to grow!

And our next encounter is in sight - yay! Jack has made plans for us for Friday night. I honestly don't know what those plans are - LOL, I'm so trusting! - but I do know that it's with Lady Friend and her Mr., so it will be enjoyable, whatever we're doing. They are such the sweetest people, and we're so glad to have met them. Great friends in this lifestyle.

We're hosting again Saturday night, June 20, so that's a work night ... an awesome, fun work night, of course. And you never know what can happen when working is in such an amazing, sexually charged environment.

Until next time ...

Fondly yours (that's "fondly," not "fondling" LOL),

Jill

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Sexy Links: Feeling the excitement!

Tomorrow is our next hosting night at our favorite club. The theme is "naughty school girls." I've dressed up plenty in my life, but never as a school girl. I am tomorrow night! I have a super cute mini-micro plaid skirt, low-cut see-through blouse, and the heels. Need to shop for some knee high stockings to match. I have really long hair and am considering the pig-tail look - which I've also never done, even as a kid - what does everyone think ... is that a total turn on or off for the guys and gals??

When we host, which we do as volunteers, we tour all the first-timers around the club, tell them the rules, and try to help them feel comfortable, especially if this is their first time in a swing club ever. It's great fun, and even though there's a bit of work invovled, it's very casual and not job-like at all. LOL! We typically start around 8 p.m. and are finished by 10, 11 at the latest. It's also great to be the first ones to meet new members, and we've met some of our best friends this way.

After the hosting is done, however, we get to play! Tomorrow night we're meeting up with Lady Friend and her Mr. from our May 18 post here at http://www.straytogether.com/ for play time after our hosting duties are complete for the evening.

Lady Friend has since admitted to being a bit nervous and unsure last time, but she and the Mr. both say she's raring to go this weekend. Matter of fact, he's told Jack that it's about all she's talked about all week!! She apparently can't wait to get me naked and let the play time begin. ;) And, if it's not enough to have play time at the club, they've invited us to stay overnight with them!!!

Feeling the excitment in all the right places, I am. :> Next entry should be ... sumptuous!

By the way, since some of you have asked, you can find us here
SwingLife Style under the screen name "SexItUp." If you're in the neighborhood, look us up.

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Swinger Information: Interested in the lifestyle?

Well, let's start out by saying that the majority of swingers are average people that you would never suspect participate in lifestyle events. We are lawyers, office clerks, construction managers, bankers, hair dressers, and just about any other professional you can imagine. We also happen to like sex and are comfortable pushing the envelope on what society considers to be "normal" in this arena.

Second, some definitions may be of help:

• BI or Bisexual - Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.
• Bi-Curious - Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited Bisexual experience.
• Exhibitionism - Showing off in public, involving nudity.
• Full Swap - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to AND including intercourse.
• Play or playing - Having sexual contact with your significant other and/or another person or people.
• Soft Swing/Swingers - A couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.
• Unicorn - Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual, female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.
• Voyeur or Voyeurism - One who enjoys watching.

There are many other definitions, but we're starting out with the basics here. I believe there is a misconception that "swingers" are people who swap partners, period. And perhaps the original definition was finite in this meaning. The fact is, however, that many people who participate in lifestyle events participate without swapping partners.

My partner and I are such a couple. I am a bi female and he is a straight male. I enjoy sexual contact with both women and men (or, to be more specific, my man). I think that women are incredibly sexy creatures. I like watching them, touching them, and playing with them -- and I especially enjoy performing cunnilingus! I and my partner don't think this makes me a deviate ... it's just something else that I enjoy in the sexual realm. He, on the other hand, is quite straight and has no desire to share physical contact with another male. I can assure you, however, that he enjoys watching my interaction with other females!!

As this is our first blog entry, there are so many more things to write about! Adventures in and out of the bedroom; rules of the road, so to speak; clubs to review; and lots more. Please check back, or -- better yet, subscribe -- so you don't miss out on a single post!

Softly yours,

Jill

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